OUR LOVE STORY FOLUKE DARAMOLA’S LOVE-STRUCK KAYODE SALAKO TELLS IT ALL
Monday, October 08, 2012Omoba
So why are you getting
out of your marriage, did you find it so hot for you to stay and mend?
Well, thank you I’m not the one separating from my ex-wife, I’m not the one
divorcing her, she is the one divorcing me. She is the one that sent me out of
the home, she sent me packing and for the reason best known to her because I
don’t think there is anything I could have done that could have warranted her
sending me out of the marriage, sending me into the cold night in quote,
“without a blanket or hot tea, but thank God, Foluke Daramola has all of that
and she provides all for me right now.
Can you recall how you
met Foluke Daramola?
Foluke and I met circumstance-cially, we met during the wee days of
Fashola-mania that we did for Governor Raji Fashola. She came in at the wee
hour , when we were almost rounding off and then she is one of those that
believed Fashion- mania was too narrow for an individual person that we needed
another platform that could be talking about positive change in Nigeria, so I
came up with another idea of ‘ Change Agents of Nigeria Network,’ a platform I
have initiated to start bringing all agents of change in Nigeria together under
one voice , one strong voice, to start persuading, start calling seriously for
the political leadership of Nigeria to start changing Nigeria positively. So
she bought the idea and since then she has been identified with it and has put
a lot efforts as the head of National Publicity Secretary of the organization
while I’m the National Co-coordinator. With this complimenting role, it is
natural that we will be working closely together. And we have been working
together for the past eight months and along the line we started discovering so
many outstanding attributes in each other. I think the chemistry started
developing and working out, and Foluke discovered those outstanding attributes
she had wanted in a man were in me and vice- versa. Along the line, we started
appreciating each other, we started to relate more closely and today the
product of the appreciation is what the whole world is reading about us.
Where exactly do you
think your former wife would have done wrong to come to separation between both
of you after 13 years of marriage?
Lack of contentment, mental egotism, and spiritual domination. She dominated
the marriage all along, and over the time we were together and she thought it
could always continue like that but even recently she took up a rude attitude
towards my father, and as her husband I called her to order but she took it as
an affront to her authority, the authority she has been exercising in the room
over time, she took it as her authority, she also fought with my blood brother,
Segun. Because Segun had to move into my house when he won the US Visa Lottery
and it was at a time too that his house rent lapsed so I just told him he did
not have to renew the payment since he will be leaving the country in no time
with his family.
So, since my father and brother moved in to my house it has been war in the
house. Every time she fights almost every member of my family and all the time
we have to reconcile and not long after she started packing her things, she
said she was tired of the marriage and that I have been planning with members
of my family to kill her, that she was no longer safe with me hence she moved
out. Then I felt there was more to it than meets the eye because all my efforts
to bring her back into reconciliation were all futile.
Did you send emissaries
to her, like relations, friends?
You can imagine that more than two hundred people begged my ex-wife to come
back but she refused, so it got to me that I came back to my senses that it was
not compulsory that I have to continue to beg a woman not to leave me and if
she is tired, let me look up to some one that is very close to me and I think
that was when Foluke showed up. She became my comforter, my soul mate and a
bosom friend and today it has metamorphosed into a marital conviction, and I am
more than one thousand percent convinced of this that Foluke Daramola will
settle down and live the rest of her life with me very soon.
There are insinuations
that you are probably hypnotized?
(Laughs), Two thousands Foluke can’t break my marriage neither can she
hypnotize me because I’m a real man; before she engages in anything like that I
would know. When real men do things they do it with conviction. The Foluke
Daramola I know does not do juju, Foluke has not jazzed me, she is an educated
person, a woman with a Master’s Degree couldn’t have time for diabolic or
fetish tendencies o practice. Instead of devoting her time running such
frivolities she would have gone back to school to study to become another
Master’s Degree. The Foluke Daramola I know is from a very good Family, a
Christian family, Baptist family to be precise. I’m also from a Baptist
background.
From our orientation and upbringing, people who grew up with core Baptist’s
values do not have time for fetish things and I can tell you that Foluke does
not have time for such things. The only thing I know she could have done to
hypnotize me is maybe through the recitation of her Psalms. you know into water
before she bath in the morning, Foluke Daramola can recite about twenty five
psalm in the bible of hand, that is one of her characteristics that has got me
closely endeared to her, she is a very prayerful woman and she has a open heart
and that is why she is temperamental...... For the complegte story click HERE
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